So wait, I just read TheMrs'(smile) blog Fish bait and she has a post about speaking what you want into existence. Now I am a big believer that thoughts are things. That what you put out there will come into existence. If you believe you are a failure, then you are. If you believe or say that your day will be bad, then your day will be bad. I’ve been trying this with this whole TTC business, but I am also a pessimist and really always look at the what ifs. So , I am going to take my own advise for once. THINK POSITIVE!