I really don’ t mind when people ask me when I’m due, what I’m having, if I am excited etc.
What I DO mind, is people who know when my due date is saying…
“You’re how many weeks now? Wow, you’re huge!”
“Are you sure there is just one in there?”
“My God girl, you are huge!”
“Are you sure your dates are right?”
Ok. Now, I am ALL belly, and I wasn’t that big before I got pregnant.
But damn, I am NOT that big!!!!
It’s getting on my nerves! Don’t these women(yes, women who have had children) know better than to basically tell a pregnant woman that she is fat!!!!!!!!!!
OK, just had to get that off my chest.
In the meantime, the wait continues…….will all four walls be painted today????????????????
Jammie J.
Thursday 3rd of September 2009
When my SIL was pregnant with her 2nd child, we hadn't seen each other for a couple weeks, when I saw her after that break, she had "popped". it was amazing. The only thing I could think of to say was, "Wow, you're really pregnant!" LOL... I cringed as I said it, but I was helpless. My brain took a backseat to my mouth.
Nina
Thursday 3rd of September 2009
I've had a couple of those, and I just look at them and give a real sarcastic "Thaaaanks. Just what I wanted to hear." Of course, I have a husband who calls me 'Biggie Smalls', so my perspective might be a bit skewed. You might be used to politer treatment by the masses.
B MoM
Wednesday 2nd of September 2009
hey, i wrote the exact same post today! =) I totally feel ya! Why do people do this??
babyblizz
Wednesday 2nd of September 2009
Put a sign around your belly, "I'm Pregnant, now leave me alone". Venting helps. Hope u have a better day tomorrow.